Me and Jason are far from perfect. We fail each other on a daily basis. We are striving for the same thing and have the same goal, yet we have different ideas about how to get there. He makes me crazy mad way to often. We can go days ignoring each other because we are both extremely stubborn. Sometimes I think we try to out stubborn the other. I'm sure we fight all wrong. If there was a book written about how to fight correctly in marriage, I bet we would be the bad example.
In my first marriage we never fought. I see now it's because Sam did not have convictions, not because we were the 'perfect' couple. When it came to how things were done everything was always done my way. Sometimes I wish Jason didn't care about things so much or have so many opinions so I can do things my way. Then I remember how great it is that I have a man that cares about the small details as well as the big issues. I'll take fighting with a man who has strong opinions but works hard to achieve our goals then a man who does it my way but doesn't work for it.
I fail. Jason fails. We both fail. However that never changes our our feelings and commitment to each other or our relationship. After one of our fights and ignoring the other for a day. I said, "still love me?" He said, "Yes, know how I know? Because no one could make me as angry as you can." Maybe I'm nuts. But that's one of the sweetest things ever to me.
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